If you are even a casual reader of this blog, you will know that we have focused heavily on a few Rochester parishes: St. Mary downtown, Church of the Assumption, and St. Anne/Lourdes. The reason is that these parishes are the worst offenders when it comes to flaunting dissent and liturgical abuse. You can infer from the title that I am going to focus on Church of the Assumption in this article. For those unfamiliar, Assumption is one of the diocese’s largest parishes which is led by Fr. Ed Palumbos, a powerful priest in the DoR who is also head of the bishop’s Priest Personnel Board.
A parishioner of Assumption sent us a copy of the upcoming parish bulletin. To my complete shock, Fr. Palumbos writes in his bulletin that the parish’s female music director, Mary Van Houten, has decided to resign from the staff in order to discern a vocation to “ordained ministry.” As if it wasn’t disturbing enough to read that a member of his flock was considering excommunicating herself and entering into schism, it seems as though Father finds no problem with this. In fact, as you will read below, he appears to have given his blessing because she has decided to “listen to her own heart with honesty and integrity.” Father repeatedly insists in the bulletin column that we must listen to God speaking to us within our hearts. While I would not argue against this message in general, I believe that it is inappropriate in this situation where a member of his flock believes that the Almighty wants her to simulate ordination and thereby leave the Catholic Church.
Below is Fr. Palumbos article, with emphasis and commentary:
“This week I have some sad news to share. Over the last 2 1/2 years we have all come to know and deeply appreciate the ministry of Mary Van Houten, our Director of Music. We’ve come to value her many gifts and the wonderful way in which she invites us to make our song our prayer. For many months Mary has been discerning God’s will in her life. Several months ago, it became clear that the Lord was calling her to pursue a dream that she has had for a very long time to enter more deeply into ministry [So far it's ambiguous what he's talking about, but keep reading. If you're still uncertain by the end of Father's column, read the laywoman's words further down the page].
It is important for all of us to listen to the voice of God speaking within our hearts. Mary’s discernment has led her to the conclusion that the Lord is calling her elsewhere for further discernment. As a result of this process, Mary has submitted her resignation as a member of our staff, effective at the end of June. This news is sad for us because Mary has brought the wonderful and powerful gift to the music ministry of our community. Our choirs are vibrant, our cantors and instrumentalists all offer the gift of their music beautifully and our whole parish has benefited from Mary’s prayerfulness and spirituality. The quality of our sung prayer is a wonderful gift to our parish community and a “joyful sound unto the Lord.” Mary has brought out the best in us!
[Now it gets interesting]
I feel torn as I share this announcement with you because Mary’s departure will mean a great loss for us, but I take consolation in the fact that Mary is following her heart and answering a call that she has prayerfully discerned, explored and accepted [How can he take consolation in a member of his flock leaving the Catholic Church? My impression is that he's more upset over her leaving the staff than entering into schism]. God asks each of us to do that in the course of our life, and so when someone’s path diverges from ours there is sadness and parting, but there is also joy in the satisfaction of knowing that someone is following her heart where we are face to face with God [What matters more: happiness in this life, or happiness in the life to come?]. Further on in the bulletin Mary writes a little bit more about this call [This is not a call from God]. We decided it would be important to tell everyone in the community about this sooner rather than later so that we might thank Mary for being a powerful woman of faith and for listening to her own heart with honesty and integrity. “ [Why should Ms. Van Houten be "thanked" for making the decision to pursue an excommunicable offense, placing her soul in peril, and setting a poor example for other women in the parish, especially the young?]
In the original digital form:

Fr. Palumbos bulletin article (click above to enlarge)
It is very disturbing to read Father’s article. A woman in his parish is about to leave the Catholic Church and he is able to find “joy” in it because she is “following her heart”? Excuse me, but I find no joy in watching a member of the Catholic Church step away from the Lord’s table and place their soul in danger… no joy whatsoever. I did not see a single condemnation of her decision in this article. Instead, his words are supportive.
Now we will take a look at Mary Van Houten’s farewell letter published in the same bulletin. Yes, Fr. Palumbos granted her bulletin space to explain her alleged “call” to ordained ministry.
Here is the letter:
“It is with great sadness that I inform you that I will be leaving Assumption Parish at the end of June.
For the past several years, I have sensed a deeper call from God in my life. In order to discern what this call might be, I sought the guidance and council of a few “wise people.” [One can only speculate who these "wise people" might be] These dear friends and spiritual directors who know and love me, helped me listen to God and discern how God was calling me. Their support and direction helped me to answer the tough questions that clarified God’s call in my life.
[And now we finally find out what she thinks she's being called to do]
I have discerned that I am being called by God to the vocation of ordained ministry. As you know, the Roman Catholic Church does not embrace the vocation of the ordained ministry of women. [Right; the ordination of women to the priesthood is contrary to the definitive, infallible teaching of the Catholic Church as established by Christ Himself. Similarly, women are also not ordained to the diaconate.] Believe me, I am aware of every implication that this call demands, and have shed many tears. This call makes absolutely no sense, especially since it is contrary to what the Catholic Church professes and teaches. [Nor should it make sense because it is not a true call. God is not going to call a person to leave His Church!] But what, my friends, am I to do? [You could decide against entering into schism and excommunicating yourself. May I recommend that you seek spiritual directors who are faithful to Holy Mother Church? Why not find yourself a Pastor who respects the Church's teachings and disciplines instead of praying for them to change and encouraging others to do the same?] What does anyone do when they are summoned? With terrifying excitement, they follow... and so I must follow where my good and loving God calls me. [This woman is clearly confused and needs help fast. It is apparent that she is not getting it from her Pastor, who finds "joy" in the fact that she is pursuing her dreams, however wrong these may be]
I am convinced that without the support, love, and stability of Assumption Parish, I would never have had the “spiritual space” in which to do this kind of discernment. [And that is exactly where I place the blame; on Fr. Palumbos, on the staff of Assumption, and most importantly on Bishop Clark for appointing this dissenting priest to run one of the largest parishes in the Diocese of Rochester and letting him stay on all these years] So, I thank you. I thank you for your patience and good spirit. I thank you for your enthusiasm as you have grown into a community that sings so beautifully. And I thank you for your friendship and love. I will miss you all very much.
…
I humbly ask for your prayers. [I hope that these prayers will be for her to change her mind] I will continue to pray for all of you. And please pray for all seminarians of every faith and gender as they struggle to hear and follow the call of our Good and loving God.
Blessings, Mary Van Houten”
In digital form:

Van Houten article (click above to enlarge)
Dear readers (and diocesan officials), we have been cautioning you for two years about the problems brewing at Church of the Assumption. During his pastorate, Fr. Palumbos has molded Assumption into a parish where lay people are empowered to take on roles reserved for ordained ministers. This includes, but is not limited to, lay homilies, lay Gospel readings, and laypeople sprinkling holy water during the aspereges. In case we have forgotten, here are videos and photographs of these liturgical abuses:
1. Lay homilies (here, here, here, here)
2. Lay Gospel (see video here)
3. Lay aspereges (see video here)
With the distinct roles of ordained and laity being blurred by Fr. Palumbos, it is no wonder that this woman has become confused and believes that she is called to ordained ministry. Furthermore, Fr. Palumbos has penned a number of bulletin columns where he asks parishioners to pray for a change in who the Church ordains to the priesthood. See the following bulletins:

Palumbos on ordination criteria (click above to enlarge)
and…

Praying for change (click to enlarge)
What also may have contributed to Mary Van Houten’s decision to discern invalid ordination is the fact that there is a supporter of the Women’s Ordination Conference (WOC) in a high ranking position on the Assumption staff. As we have commented before, Deni Mack, a former member of Corpus Christi and supporter of the WOC, is the parish’s Pastoral Associate. Are we starting to see the fruit of having WOC supporters in positions of power here in Rochester? How many minds may have been corrupted and souls placed in danger by Sr. Joan Sobala (Pastoral Administrator of St. Anne/Lourdes), Nancy DeRycke (former Pastoral “Leader” of Good Shepherd, now on the staff at St. Pius X), Deni Mack, Gloria Ulterino (former head of the DoR’s Office of Women), Mary Ramerman (former Pastoral Associate of Corpus Christi and current priestess of Spiritus Christi) and countless others? The Diocese of Rochester knew the background of all of these women, but they simply don’t care. Dare I suggest that the presence of so many women’s ordination supporters in positions of power in the diocese has been intentional.
Is Bishop Clark going to take action, or will his silence once again give consent to what is happening at Assumption and with this poor woman? I place the blame for this woman’s confusion squarely at the feet of our bishop and Fr. Palumbos. We have done all that we can here at Cleansing Fire to make known the problems at Assumption. Several people in the know have told us that the diocese reads this site, so they can’t feign ignorance! When is action going to come? Attendance (though high) is down at this parish, the significance of the priesthood is diminished there, and laypeople are confused.
If you have had enough, please respectfully write to Bishop Clark and to the Vatican about this situation. Be sure to send a copy of the bulletin articles so that they can see how this priest has more or less granted his approval for a member of his flock to excommunicate herself. Remember, the bishop will be required to make an ad limina visit to the Vatican sometime at the end of 2011 or early 2012. If you want to remind them about the problems in this diocese, now is the perfect time to do it.
The bishop can be reached here, for what it’s worth:
Bishop Matthew H. Clark
Pastoral Center
Diocese of Rochester
1150 Buffalo Road
Rochester, New York 14624
The Apostolic Nuncio to the United States can be reached here:
Archbishop Pietro Sambi
3339 Massachusetts Avenue,
NW, Washington DC 20008
Telephone: (202)333-7121
Fax: 337-4036
The Vatican Congregation for the Clergy can be reached here:
Cardinal Mauro Piacenza
Palazzo delle Congregazioni,
00193 Roma, Piazza Pio XII, 3
Most importantly, please pray for this woman and for change to come to the Diocese of Rochester. We have already witnessed four women seek invalid ordinations and a few married men seek illicit ordinations from this diocese. Our leaders are playing a terrible game in an effort to change the Church, and innocent laypeople are the victims. This culture of dissent needs to end.